The Gordian Iris
11 Nov 2025 22:10
less painful than an apology
The easiest hidden TV idea yet—perfect for small spaces and minimalist bedrooms. Apparently, you’re supposed to keep TV out of the bedroom because the bedroom is just for sleeping and, well, you know. But let’s get real. Plenty of us like to binge our favorite shows until our eyelids give up the fight. If having a TV in your room is non-negotiable, then we’ve got the hack for you! This clever hidden TV hack means you can maintain a peaceful, […]
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—–email—–
Dear Frank-
My boyfriend knew I was a PostSecret fan and a couple of days before Christmas this was in a package on my porch. It was the most thoughtful and unexpected gift. Thanks Rod and Frank!
All 6 PostSecret books are available from Amazon, Barnes & Noble or your favorite Independent bookstore. Order now in time for Christmas.
(PostSecret books from other countries can be tough to find online.)

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—–Email—–
—–Frank@PostSecret.com—–
Dear Frank,
Last week you were speaking in Portland, Oregon. I walked in a little late to a very crowded room. You said a few words, a few more and then, suddenly, I recognized my words:
15 years-ago . . . adoption . . . 1 year-ago . . . trick or treating . . .
Tears sprang to my eyes. You were reading MY secret. And I heard it. Everyone heard it. My heart was thumping so hard in my chest I was certain everyone could hear it too. I wanted to yell out “That’s my secret!”
I went home later, after buying a few books, and told my husband that you read my secret to hundreds of people. He smiled and hugged me. I asked him if he wanted to know what it was. He said; “No, a whole room full of strangers knows, and that’s enough.”
Thank you.

—–Email—–
Dear Frank,
I mailed in one of the secrets that made it into your book, PostSecet Confessions on Life, Death and God. Mine reads-
“When another woman steals your man, the best revenge is to let her keep him.”
Funny story, my ex-husband’s wife (the other woman) dropped my kids off at my house last week and saw my PostSecret book in the kitchen. She exclaimed,
“I love that book! Have you seen the one about stealing another person’s man? That one’s my favorite!”
She had no idea it was about her.

—–Email—–
Two weeks ago I was placed in a psych ward for attempting to take my own life. I was sitting alone until another boy came up to me and simply said, “You’re not the most fucked up person anymore.” For the first time in my life I didn’t feel like I was the only one struggling.
—–Email—–
Frank,
The message about the girl in the psychiatric hospital with the boy who let her in on the secret that she isn’t alone. I’m the girl. I sent you that 8 years ago. Two week after my suicide attempt. It stopped me in my tracks to see it again. I sent it to you on a whim. I can’t remember why. I struggled hard for a few years after this. I struggle still but am stable now. Thank you for honoring me and all of us in what you do.

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Hi Frank,
Several months ago, I sent in a secret on an image cutout of Mariana by Sir John Everett Millias. Mariana loses the man she loves and, consumed by the grief of unrequited love, she lives a life of loneliness.

For years, I have been struggling severely with depression, anxiety, and thoughts of suicide as I work through past trauma and a heartbreak. Sending in the secret was a major crack in my healing– a radical acceptance of where my life is. An acknowledgement that I lost something so great and I may spend my life waiting for something that will never come; A solidarity with Mariana. A deep sadness arose within me as I created the card and dropped it in the mail. While I did not receive a miraculous healing from sharing my secret, it allowed me to feel something- anything- which I had been denying myself.
Then something strange happened recently: The Fate of Ophelia by Taylor Swift was released. Swift credits Millias’ painting Ophelia as her inspiration, which, itself, is an interpretation of Ophelia from Shakespeare’s Hamlet. As I learned of the similarities between our inspirations, it was like the Universe winked at me. But Swift turns the fate of her muse around and does not allow grief consume her.

PostSecret and Taylor Swift have given me strength to keep moving. I am just going to keep putting one foot in front of the other and not allow myself to become a female tragedy. I can turn my own fate around.
Thank you!

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With just a few IKEA pieces and clever ideas, one woman created a custom-looking laundry room that actually makes sorting clothes enjoyable. Doing laundry may never top anyone’s list of favorite chores, but one IKEA hack is proving that the right setup can make wash day more bearable. For many of us, the laundry room isn’t just for clothes. It’s also ground zero for everything from small repairs to household storage. That’s why creating a space that works hard and […]
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Here is a video of me making a puppet! And then performing a little with that puppet!
Some of you may recognize this technique as a callback to another series of puppet videos I made, some years ago. (As demonstrated here)
It’s been a fun idea to revisit, and I plan to do it some more.
This is, of course, related to my Wondermark-themed card game, Bolted!
Which now has final box art:

If you were part of the game’s launch campaign back in the spring, you may have noticed I just posted a detailed backer update about the final printing and shipping schedule.
You can read it if you want LOTS OF DETAILS about the current status & progress of the game! But in summary:
The time it will take to approve the artwork proofs & samples also allows for a perfect li’l window for me to REOPEN PREORDERS.
So if you missed it the first time around, you will now have a BONUS CHANCE to reserve yourself a copy:
Bolted! is coming to Kickstarter!My (silly but ambitious) goal in this prelaunch period is to gather the same number of “followers” on the prelaunch page, as we had total backers in the original campaign (436). That seems doable, right??
The plan is to launch mid-next week! That’s pretty soon!!
I’m assuming at least some of you reading this are OG Boltheads who jumped on the train early and have been patiently waiting for me to wrap it all up. I’m super grateful for your initial support!
And now that the manufacturing part of it all is in motion, I’m super pleased that the timing will allow for another chance to get it in front of folks for pre-orders.
Since I’m only likely to print this game once, I want to make sure anyone who’s interested will have a chance to grab a copy. So I’ll be talking much more about this in the days to come!!
Getting your home ready for the holidays isn’t just about decking the halls. It’s about making room for friends and family, too. But when you live in a smaller home or apartment, finding space for overnight guests can feel a little challenging. That’s where the right small space sleeper sofa can save the day. Enter the IKEA TORNSBORG sleeper sofa — a sleek, space-saving piece that turns from cozy couch to comfy bed in seconds. Designed for compact living, this […]
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